Every guy who seeks to better himself probably knows by heart Proverbs 27:17 . Even then they knew that one of the best tools that guys have in their lives are other guys. That "brotherhood" is imperative to a healthy life.

ChristianGuys.org also knows that we need those connections. While we do not desire or claim to take the place of real personal interaction and accountability, we do want to make sure that we are facilitating the opportunity for you to connect with someone else in a personal way.

Accountability is not just asking "how are you doing", it's about being open and honest with someone no matter what the outcome. Accountability is being vulnerable, something that guys are not good at. We have to be able to move out of the "one man show" mentality and show that we can be connected at a deeper level that what men in the past have. Accountability is hard!

An answer to the oft-asked question of if masturbation is a sin for believers in Christ Jesus, and what the scriptures teach concerning it.

The Scripture is strangely silent about this universal issue, while not shy about all sorts of other sexual situations and perversions... in great detail concerning sex with animals, etc. Yet the bible says nothing about masturbation. This is odd, don't you think?

Some, mistakenly, cite Onan in Gen 38:9 as suggesting that masturbation is a sin. In fact, "onanism" has become a synonym for masturbation. But this is obviously an error, and a rather daft one at that. We know what Onan did, for it is spelled out for us in lurid detail; and we know why it was a sin: he was maliciously using and cheating Tamar in way that was wrong. In any case, what Onan was doing was certainly not masturbating, and you have to be pretty dimwitted to miss this.